Just blogwalking to one of my friend's blog, seeing how she posted so much photos with her soulmate. Then realize, that I didnt write much about my other half. Since I crowned as a mother (of two!), my universe turned upside down. It doesn't mean I put him aside, but, we actually, I and him, put our concern to our lil ones. Well, it happens to everyone, I guess.
But, this post, doesn't mean I wanna show how is our romance life goes, but again, it is for me. To remind the path I chosed, how we danced trough the music of life, and how we still survive.
Hand in hand.
Then I found out, I love him even more
I get involved in a band, girls band actualy. All the member of band wanted to join an music community at campus, I actually, wasn't interested. At all. Because I already joined a campus radio, that took most of my time and energy. That night, with a very heavy step to campus, I attended the meeting. And I met him.
Lil convo that warmed us, I and him easily get closed. Days ahead, we accidentally met up in other music event. Then I realised, He ALSO joined the same radio with me (!!!) but, I never knew for the first place. haha.
months went by, we got more close each other, I admired him even more, especially when I knew how he struggled along in his life. Life teached him alot.
May 2005, was a time, we never forget, How we decided to walk together.
The rest of the year, I accompanied and witnessed him to finish his study and gained bachelor degree, and also witnessing his first job.
After he finished his study, my campus life became lousy. We just met on weekend, and how I always tried to meet him whenever I could. I finally finished my bachelor degree, and started to find my own job. I took parttime work as commercial announcer in my city, that took most of the time at weekend. But he, again, really patience to wait for me during on air time.
Early 2007, I had my first full time job. My office not really close to him, but he tried to meet me once or twice a week, and always met up at weekend. Always!
He had new opportunity at pharmacy. We still managed to meet if we could during office hour. there was one time, when He badly sick, and had to stay at hospital for some days, it broke my heart, since I couldn't be there for him everyday. But I managed one whole day to look after him. I can't forget that day.
He moved again to other company, a consumer good one. That year, our story was not good. At all. Too much fights, too much hates. Met other guy. He met other woman. It was almost, an end tunnel for us. But at the end, we got back on track. To our track. Phew...
End of year, we traveled together, with my whole family to central java.
We got mor confirmed each other, put our dreams at same basket, and plan for higher level. Marriage!After all ups and downs, We decided, let's embrace, together! We plan for engagement in the same year, August 16th. The rest of the year, prepared for the wedding day. Ah yeach, he was offered a better opportunity at Bank.
We got married! made our very first trip as husband and wife to Makassar and Toraja
Then got pregnant too, and had a baby. All the world turned upside down. Then the world no longer You and Me,
But You, and Me and Allena
We traveled! To Phuket, Bali and Spore. End of year, we decided to live alone, seperately from my parents.
We moved to our lil home. Had our very first car. And started building our castle. It was the time when first-car-euphoria happened. We traveled to many place by car. It was a year also full of tears, because so many things changed since we lived alone. Took lot of energy, tears, and moneyyyy. We also made a trip to Bali.
We made more trips this year. To KL, Bali, Yogya and Bangkok. We became more solid each other. It was a year, we renovated our lil home to become more comfort for us. We felt complete! But, At the end, we decided to give Allena a sibling. Oh I forgot, there was a time when we had big argue and fight, that was become a turning point for both of us. We were sorry that for happened, but we learned a lot from that moment.
We went to our gynecolog, and decided a second child. Surprisingly, on February, I found two straps on my test pack. A bundle of joy!
We made a trip to Penang and Padang. I think, those trips as highlight for our adventure by three. Ah we also sold our dearly car, regarding to welcome our new member, we need a bigger car :'(
Then, Sena come to complete our happiness.
We learned a lot to be a parent, although we had 2 kids, didn't mean we were advanced! We are forever a newbie!
We made trips, to Johor, Spore and Malang. Was so much adventorous year!
At the end, we efforted our second house. Alhamdulillah.